Remembrance Day Reflections
Earlier this week I had the great pleasure to be the guest speaker at a local elementary school’s Remembrance Day service. As usual the children did a fabulous job, as they did in all the schools I went to this week.
While I didn’t use script, here is a rough transcript of what I remember sharing with the students…
Good morning everyone. Thanks for letting me share with you today. This is one of my most favourite weeks of the year, and I know it is for our Legion members too. It’s the week we get to go to all the schools and see all the great things you have put together to remember the important sacrifices men and women have made so we can enjoy our freedom.
You know what? I love my bed. It’s soft. It’s got nice warm blankets. It’s got fluffy pillows. Do you love your beds? I bet you do. Do you think soldiers had nice beds to sleep in? There are some really nice hotels over in Europe, do you think they got to stay in them? No, of course not. Where did they sleep? That’s right, they slept in tents, or ditches, wherever they could.
Last night I had pizza for supper. It was sooo good. Do you guys like pizza? Do you think they got to eat pizza during the war? No, somedays they didn’t get very much to eat at all. Somedays all they had was a little piece of chocolate to get them through.
What about the bathroom? Do you think we want to talk about what sort of bathroom they had in the war? No, I don’t think we want to go there.
And when it’s rainy I get out my big umbrella. Did they have big colourful umbrellas in the war? No, that’s right, they didn’t. They had to be out in all kinds of weather. The hot summer days, the freezing winter nights. We’re they out there for just a couple days at a time? No, they were out there for weeks, months, even years at a time, fighting in all kinds of weather. Does this sound like a lot of fun? They went through a lot to fight for our freedom, so this is why we love to remember and give our thanks to our veterans, and to those who are still fighting for peace in the world.
Do you guys have heroes? People you really look up to and admire?
Do you know who my hero is? My hero is my grandfather. He’s 87 and fought in the war. Now he’s never told me any stories from the war and I know he really doesn’t like to talk about it at all. This tells me that he has seen and done things that still bother him today. Lots and lots of veterans don’t like to talk about war because of the things they have had to see and do which they hope no one else will ever have to do. They come home and have nightmares for years and years. Doing the things they had to do in the war kind of breaks them. A lot of them aren’t the same anymore because of what they saw. And they did this to help protect people. They did it so we would have our freedom here today. This is why our veterans are real heroes.
War usually starts with someone, or a group of people, who think they are better than someone else. I know you’ve been talking about bullies in your classes lately, and it’s sort of like a bully. World War II started when someone thought they were better than someone else, and decided he would get rid of all those other people. So he built a huge army, and they did horrible things to millions of good people. And they started to attack other countries who were different too. So we had to go to war to stop them from doing these things. The rest of the world stood up and said, “We’re not going to let you be a bully any more, and we’re going to stop you.” We had to fight back, there was no other way. Too many people were getting hurt, and it had to be stopped.
There’s a story in the Bible I’d like to share with you. Once a group of people found a woman doing something they saw as wrong, they really didn’t like what she was doing, so they were going to punish her. They dragged her through the streets, and when they saw Jesus they pushed her down in front of him and said, “This woman has done a very bad thing, and we’re going to punish her for it!”
They started to pick up rocks to throw at her, when Jesus said, “Yes, maybe she has done something wrong. So if you want to punish her, the person here who has never done anything wrong can be the first to throw their rock.” And he stooped down and started to write in the dirt.
The people who were going to throw their rocks started to think about what he said. And everyone realized they had also done something wrong. So one by one, they dropped their rocks and walked away.
When everyone was gone, Jesus stood up and asked the woman where everyone went. She said they had all left. Jesus said to her, “And you go too, and don’t do anything wrong again.”
Earlier on this morning, one of the classes told us we carry peace within us. We do don’t we? We all carry peace within us.
So when someone tells us we’re wrong, or we’re different, or starts to pick on someone who’s different, we can share that peace. We can put an end to the fighting in our schools. We can help one another because none of us are perfect. We all make mistakes, we’re all different. That’s what’s wonderful about who we are, we’re all different. Some of us are good at sports, some at music, some at math or reading, we all have something we’re good at. We’re all special.
We can all make a difference in our schools or in our town. We can all help bring a little bit of peace to where we are. And when you grow up, you can continue to bring peace to in our country and in our world.
We remember what has happened in the past. We remember the sacrifices our veterans made, and also those still being made by our soldiers who are still fighting for peace.
So thank you, thank you, thank you for all your wonderful work you’ve done in getting ready for today. For your songs, your poems, your pictures and murals, thank you all for remembering our heroes, those who fought for our freedom. Thank you!
We Believe In One Lord
“We Believe In One Lord”
John 1:1-18; Nicene Creed
We believe many things. We learn as we grow up that there are certain truths in our lives. We also learn not all these truths are helpful. We learn to accept certain realities will always be true.
What sort of truths do we believe in? You know, things like “Hindsight is 20/20” or “1+1=2”. What sort of truth statements do you hold onto?
What about this one? “We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God, eternally begotten of the Father, God from God, light from light, true God from true God, begotten, not made, of one Being with the Father; through him all things were made.”
Do we believe in this truth we recited together in the Nicene Creed? The creed being a foundational statement formed in the 4th century by the leaders of the church who were trying to bring the church together in a system of beliefs so they could have a unifying position, as base, upon which to build.
Yes, this section about Jesus Christ is a bit of a mouthful. It says a lot of things about where Jesus came from, who he is, what he is about, and where he has gone. read more…
A Dose of the Spirit
Last night my family and I went to a Robin Mark concert.
For those of who do not know who he is… What is wrong with you!?
I kid.
But seriously, Robin Mark is one the most gifted song writer and worship leader we have in the church today. He is a wonderful story-teller (the Irish accent may help) and performs spirit filled “concerts”.
And he works to include the audience. So to hear 500 people singing “Jesus, All For Jesus” last night accapella was a moving experience, and you could easily see it was for the band as well.
Yes I kind of snuck out of town for three days to get to this concert, but I needed it.
I am about to start a very busy season in the church. Our 105th anniversary is this weekend in our church. Remembrance services begin this week at all the schools and in the community. This will all follow very quickly with Advent and Christmas.
I needed a big dose of Jesus before this all begins. I knew I would receive that in this concert.
Jesus is why we do these things. Jesus is the celebration of our churches. Jesus is our life blood, the gift we receive. Our breath, our song. And last night I was reminded of this.
We do all of this in the name of Jesus Christ. None other. None greater.
Here is the song I mentioned earlier.
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Who do you do live for?
We Believe in One God
“We Believe In One God”
Genesis 2:1-9; Nicene Creed
I want to start by asking you a question… What do you believe? What sort of things do you think about, especially during the month of October, when you look about at the earth around us? What do you believe about God?
The church is a place known for knowing God. Some people will look at us and think, “There is where we find out everything about God.” Or some people might think, “Well, that could be a place to learn a bit about God.”
We gather in our churches because of this wonder, this journey of seeking to know more about God. Why is it we are drawn to this place? Why do we want to come and here the same thing each and every week? It’s kind of funny when you think about it, because if we were a television show who followed the exact same formula each and every week with hardly any variance ever, we would have been cancelled long ago!
Yet we come. For some strange, unexplainable reason we keep coming back into this place. A place where we can ask questions, a place where we feel we might learn something and grow. But why? Why do we do it? What do we believe will happen if we stop? read more…
Death and Mourning in Pop Culture
As clergy, I have an interest in public gatherings. Particularly if the public gathering is akin to what I would consider worship, or adopted from a Christian form of worship.
This would include such things as concerts and other large public gatherings.
What has caught my attention lately has been around funeral or memorial gatherings. This year I’ve watched two very large public displays of mourning, and they has left me wondering.
The first was the funeral of the leader of the New Democratic Party over the summer. Jack Layton certainly had the hearts of the nation as he literally lived the Cinderella story of Canadian politics. His state funeral (extremely rare for the leader of the opposition, only once before had it happened, and the previous example had been Prime Minister earlier in his career) was certainly a sight to behold. There were certainly points where it felt like funeral, other times it felt like a political rally, and other times a concert. While it was a tribute to a very public political figure, as clergy, to me it felt… odd.
The second example is one which occurred last week. It was the memorial ceremony for Steve Jobs held at the Apple campus with all employees in attendance. It too was a strange event in my view. It began in silence as the cameras swept the crowd and zoomed in on massive photos of Jobs posted around the square. Then as Tim Cook took to the stage to begin the memorial, applause and loud cheering was heard. Throughout the gathering there was some deep, heart felt remembrances shared, mixed into the middle was as musical set by Norah Jones. After some more words of remembrance, Coldplay finished the ceremony with a rousing set worthy of a world tour. Again, it felt odd to me.
Now I didn’t expect to see a lot of religious ritual in the Apple tribute to the one who was their heart and soul. Jobs wasn’t Christian, he wouldn’t have welcomed a church presence, and I’m certain that corporate America would care to see it either at such a public event.
Liturgical preferences aside, this is what I have noticed after watching and reflecting on these two events.
We’ve lost our ability to mourn.
There were moments in both ceremonies where there were some really powerful moments of connecting the person, the emotional response and the need to mourn. But it some ways it felt like the ceremonies were set up to “recover” from that moment. As if the organizers were saying, “Wow that was sad, we better cheer everyone up as quickly as possible!”
One thing I’ve learned being in ministry is that we cannot bury our emotions. We cannot hide them from the public eye. We need to mourn, hurt, cry, and sometimes we need to do it in community with others who feel the same way. It’s our natural response. It helps us know we are not alone in our suffering, it helps us know it ok to feel sad, that we don’t need to cheer up right away.
Mourning is a process, not a moment in time. We can’t turn it on like a light. There is no switch.
Mourning takes time. It could be weeks, months, even years before we feel like the weight of losing a loved one is lifted to where we can begin to return to a normal life. Mourning is part of the healing process.
Yes I agree we need to celebrate the life we have lost, but we also need to be able to healthily deal with the emotions and pain we are feeling.
What do you think? Have we lost our ability to deal with death and the loss of loved ones? Are we in too much of a hurry to move on?
I believe we have, and I believe part of it is because we have lost our connection to the church which understands and helps us through times like these. Let us help our communities reclaim this important part of life, dealing with the loss of a loved one.